The Handbook: Work the Party Circuit
Navigating the endless loop of social gatherings this summer can be daunting. Here’s four tips to keep in mind to be the best guest from now until new years. And save me a drink, will you?
1) When to Show Up
Never be the first to arrive. You’ll get stuck playing co-host when the others show up. But let them know if you plan to get there more than 45 minutes after the start time.
Never be the first to arrive. You’ll get stuck playing co-host when the others show up. But let them know if you plan to get there more than 45 minutes after the start time.
2) What to Say
Ask open-ended questions—things that begin with who, what and where—to get a conversation started. Or, begin with fail-safes like the day’s weather or traffic.
3) Where to Go
Find your host and say hello. Then proceed to the bar. Chatting in line is good. Lingering at the bar once you have your drinks is bad.
Find your host and say hello. Then proceed to the bar. Chatting in line is good. Lingering at the bar once you have your drinks is bad.
4) How to Leave
Discreetly retrieve your jackets. Approach your host quickly and thank them genuinely, turn and exit.
Discreetly retrieve your jackets. Approach your host quickly and thank them genuinely, turn and exit.
*Three signs you’ve outstayed your welcome: The booze has dried up. You’ve broken something. Your host keeps mentioning how late it is.